For The Love Of Potty Training πŸ€” Or Nah

OHHHHH the joys of those days. You know… When your home is still filled with the joyeous pitter patters of tiny feet. Let’s us pause for a moment of humility while we reminisce out our kiddos πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€” wait. I mean.. That is if your a mom or dad reading this right now……

It’s that time …. Yay for potty training πŸ˜†πŸ‘ˆ not really. It may very well be thee most disgusting part of parenthood. Only, it’s gotta get done. My baby blue is venturing into a whole new realm of toddlership. Yaaaaayyyyy me! πŸ™„ while the end game Is exciting, the journey there is … Need I say more?

After having four kids, I’ve learned a little something about some things. β˜ΊοΈπŸ‘ˆ 

One example:

  • While summer vacations are great, and extra fun for you and your family, there is this one little downfall of taking a child still in diapers to experience the world right alongside you.  

You know… Like the extra giant bag that contains their week to two weeks worth of diapers, wipes, and extra sets of clothes for Just in case, on top of the clothes already in their luggage. Exhausted yet? 

Simply put..

 “I would rather have to find a bathroom, than pack up on extra necessities for them little ones.”

What about you?

Anyhow, wish me luck on the journey. 


See ya on the next one😎🀘….


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Can You Roll Into A BurritoΒ 


Parenthood comes with many struggles. it also comes with many blesssings. 

Something I’ve learned throughout my journey through life and motherhood is that…if life is worth living, it’s also worth recording… BUT! If your not smiling through it all, and finding the humor in every situation, then you got  yourself an even more stressful situation. 

No! it’s not OK to make yourself your kids best friend, you need to be able to lay down the law. On the flip side, it’s also very important to have a small level of friendship with your kid. Why? Because if your kid can’t come home and have an after school talk sesh about their latest crush…EVEN if you don’t approve, you grit those teeth and you listen happily. Why? Because later in life, those small moments will turn into larger scenarios that they will NEED your advice for. 

Anyhoo, not like you need lecturing or anything but…. just thought I’d share a quick cute live moment with Sweet Pea While live streaming on, she was challenged to a burrito. Hehehe 

Brought  me back to times when I was a young child and my brother and I did BURRITO!  


Ahhhhh ….when life was simpler. 

Heyyy what’s your happy memory?


Our Little SecretΒ 

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Confession: I greatly disrespect mothers who keep their kids from the dads. Why? Because when I found out I was pregnant with my first born, her dad dipped out and abandoned her. I spent years begging him to be a part of HER life, and after three to four years, I gave up. He popped up a year ago when she turned nine. Whaaaaat!? Why would someone do that you ask? (Speculation: He recently got engaged. Lets be real…. woman! Would you marry a man who could potentially dip out on you and your child? 😁Nah. Would you allow your daughter to marry a man who could possibly dip out on your future grandchildren? WELL…you get the point.) My conclusion: He wants to…you know….prove that dad of the decade role to his soon to be wife and her family. 

OK back to the point…

Being on that end of the spectrum, I see it this way:. Your darn good and lucky your baby daddy stuck by your kid from the start. Appreciate that, cause it could always be worse.

Ponder that thought for the day 😌☝

Catch ya on the next one πŸ˜ŽπŸ‘….