Confession: I greatly disrespect mothers who keep their kids from the dads. Why? Because when I found out I was pregnant with my first born, her dad dipped out and abandoned her. I spent years begging him to be a part of HER life, and after three to four years, I gave up. He popped up a year ago when she turned nine. Whaaaaat!? Why would someone do that you ask? (Speculation: He recently got engaged. Lets be real…. woman! Would you marry a man who could potentially dip out on you and your child? 😁Nah. Would you allow your daughter to marry a man who could possibly dip out on your future grandchildren? WELL…you get the point.) My conclusion: He wants to…you know….prove that dad of the decade role to his soon to be wife and her family.
OK back to the point…
Being on that end of the spectrum, I see it this way:. Your darn good and lucky your baby daddy stuck by your kid from the start. Appreciate that, cause it could always be worse.
Ponder that thought for the day 😌☝
Catch ya on the next one 😎👐….