Why Feelings And Emotions Have Power

Photo © Amanda Gordon

FACEBOOK USER: I wish I had “bros” to break a niggas jaw when I get hurt

Itz Me : No girl should ever allow a male that amount of power over their feelings and emotions. They simply… do not deserve it. Truth be told, we shouldn’t give any one that much power in our lives. You are amazing, you are beautiful, and the only person you need keeping your head and your heart solid is your daily thoughts. keep em’ positive. There will always be bigger and better things in the world for ALL OF US…you just gotta trust your journey.  anyhoo.. Mel just got #deep again. Laters 😎🤘

Just felt like sharing.
I’m sorry I’ve been distant. I’ve been so busy, I haven’t time to focus on the important parts of my life, and that has made me tragically suffer. I’m doing my best to get back at it. Although, I might argue that I just pulled one out right up there. So…HAPPY INSPIRATIONAL! How about we call it that from now on?

Life Lessons Are Brutal

For those of you that have been part of my journey for the last 3 1/3 years…you all may be be expecting what fall time brings for me.

Yes I still have a few articles I must belt out, but for many of us writers in the bloggerverse? It’s about to be National Novel Writing Month and I’m about to dip out a whole lot more. To be honest, having Baby Blue threw my process off severely. While I’m not complaining I am admitting that I have yet to finish editing the first novel in my trilogy.

Oh well. Baby steps are better than none at all. Some days I feel like completely trashing the book all together but… what author hasn’t considered that before. #WriterStruggles

Things in my daily life are changing these days… which means a whole lot of transitions I gotta get through.

My father’s bday passed in June. I didn’t feel that jagged knife feeling so much this year as I had in the past.

Mom’s is coming up and so is mine. A.K.A why I don’t like nor promote my bday. It makes me miss her.

Eh… we’ll make do.

My first born… she’s😑 let’s just say, that girls looking for trouble…but … as dad used to say, “Leave em’ like that so they learn.” 😒

Life is a struggle guys… I’m not gonna lie. I would never come to you with all this perfect talk and jaded eyes. That’s not what I’m about.

One day, somewhere out there my story could save a life, and that’s why I tell it like it is. 🤔 Is that overreaching It? 😂🤣 #SarcasticMoment

But for real tho…

I had to watch both of my parents live very short and unhealthy lives due to lifestyle choices. Therefore, I have my reasons why I eat healthier. My parents were baby boomers… oh boy! What a confused generation WE are. Right?

A lot of pain, a lot of happiness, and a lot of everything. Why? Because that’s life.


Despite it all, I just keep going. You know… cause’ why not?

Sometimes as a society we all tend to focus on our misfortunes and disadvantages more. Maybe it’s cause we wonder what we may be missing out on…🤔

Ahhh the infinite possibilities.

However, I recetly saw a post on my IG feed, “Your vibe chooses your tribe.”

Yeh… well it kinda does.



Negative manifests negative.

Positive manifests positive.

Ok cool.

See ya on the next one😎🤘

Rain Rain Don’t Go Away. Come Along Each And Every Day

Photography ©2017 Amanda Gordon

Don’t ever look at your disadvantages, setbacks, obstacles, disappointments, struggles, pain, grief, etc. As anything more than a blessing in disguise. As with nature, it is designed to withstand any storm. Trees may lose a branch here and there, some things may get blown over outdoors, and a fire may burn down large areas of earth, but at the end of every single one of those storms, we are left with a world, fresh, and washed away from the previous messes of nature. Rejuvenated. #StuffRareSays

Happy Inspirational Tuesday!!! 🙌

See ya on the next one😎🤘….


See Instagram for photography: @rarenwise

See Snapchat for snippets moments of our day: @rarenwise

See musical.ly for comedic video of the day: @rarenwise