“Intimacy should NOT feel like a chore.” #StuffRareSays
The other day, I spoke with J. Danae. She said something to me that sent me down another reflective path.
There are different levels of healthy and unhealthy relationships.
Let’s pinpoint one:
Controlling versus receptive relationships
In some controlling relationships
We see everything a couple does with each other in a one-sided manor.
Examples may be;
On their terms, their way, their time, their convenience.
Receptive relationships tend to ebb and flow with one another.
An attribute that contributes to jiving well together.
Example may be;
Fulfilling the emotional, physical and intellectual needs of your partner.
Have you ever fallen into either category?
I mean… relatable.
If you or someone you know is involved in a controlling relationship, you ALREADY know everything you do with your partner…
WILL feel like a chore.
It is in THOSE moments that you will see the answer you’ve been seeking.
The only thing left….
Is a decision.