“You don’t personally know someone based off of the judgements of their haters.”
We know the people we know, and get the people we get. Don’t waste your time and energy feeling out others for information. So you can Report back. You will always only be told what you NEED to hear.
On the flip side:
Be aware of who you are and, and who others are not. It is in those vibes that you will know their true intentions.
Genuine interactions are where the substantial conversations occurs.