Alrighty world, this post goes out to all my family friendly readers out there. Yes Mothers our special day is near. How many of you have been forgotten on Mothers day? “Shhh! I have.” Meh! …
Today, that is besides the point. Being a mother… Well that sure is heck ain’t no easy accomplishment (Yes I said ain’t 😮 ) I mean hello nine months of change to your body, the pain associated with the process… AND….YES!… No joke, your basically looking forward to getting hurt. Don’t sit here and try to tell me you don’t feel like a train wreck after giving birth? Not to mention, being a hungry beast afterwards 😉 So often we mothers get so engulfed into our chores, and daily duties for our children, that we tend to forget about ourselves. We just… Don’t have the time. Our bodies have changed. We may or may not be happy with what we see. We simply forget all the amazing reality we bring to the table. Mother’s Day is dedicated to celebrate all that we symbolize, are, and can be. Men… WE love you … But you can’t deny we woman get the harder part of the child creating bargain. If I’ve gotta spend a year nursing a baby… You better believe I’m going to pinch my spouses nipples a lot. JUST to show him what it feels like in the beginning to feed your child. 😆 (No joke)
Mother’s are their first teachers. We spend a majority of their formative years, helping them development. No, it’s not like we watch TV all day, and you know… Just chill. We spend our days transitioning ourselves, and a baby into the household schedule, tied down to nursing all day, teaching them the skills they need to survive. As a mother of four, and one step kid, I can say, a day in the life of a mother is quite a straining daze… But … They sure do make me proud. Some days, I want to scorn my 9 yer old for trying to stay up late watching the newest popular kid YouTube videos. Ugh! That moment when your walking down your hallway, and you hear a mans voice 😱 Busted! Watching the shaytards. Now, I must admit it’s not a bad blog. Who doesn’t appreciate seeing a family out there with a large family like us? … She still makes it so darn hard to get mad, because she’ll get up in a great mood, AND EVEN MAKE BREAKAST FOR THE SIBLINGS.!!!
My 4 year old: He’s our first born together. The inevitable cringe of growupville is right around the corner, as he will be 5 this August. This momma is melting down. 😔😕 This Saturday, we had a meme-able moment. I’m not gonna lie, we love Star Wars. We have light sabers, the movies, and the songs stuck in our head EVERDAY. Yeah I’m that dorky parent, “Sigh.” 🙄 I couldn’t even begin to handle hearing, “Mom sing the black mater song.” 😂 Just … AWE!”
Then, I have my three year old (In June). That little sour patch kid is a bruiser. He loves you when he feels like it, but don’t bother him about it any other time. He MUST have everyone else’s things. If he can’t have it, you will rue the day. 😱 And my precious little princess the newest of them all. She is well … Time consuming. On top of blogging, editing, and working on my novel, I drown in lack of time… But she’s oh so precious and miraculous. That 5 month old melt hearts with those blue eyes, and blonde hair. Just like big brother.
Has anyone ever told you the struggle of Being a step parent? I will. I love that kid to pieces and she’s a sweetheart. Holy shiboli … That girl … We call her little miss butt hurt. Why? If someone says, does, or thinks about something that upsets her, she will throw a match to the wind, and set fire on everyone. If her dad says anything rudely to her, which is often. (Him and his male mind, lacking that sensitivity we woman crave.) she’s um… Fourteen, and with her puberty brain … Well …She doesn’t get mad at him, she directs ALL her anger AT ME! Mhm. No joke. If dad upsets her, I pay for it to no end. Pretty unfair if you ask me, but who said life was meant to be fair.
Thus, leads me to my point. Think of the woman in your life. Remember the struggles they go through, and obstacles they endure. Don’t let that special mother in your life go un-pampered this year. Give her a reason to remember her worth, beauty and accomplishments. Appreciate her. Sometimes we woman feel unproductive when we are stuck home, with no achievements other then, “Guess who went poop today!” …. 😐 yeh!
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