Don’t Be That Guy

“Our personal struggles do not give us the right nor justification to treat others badly. No ONE is responsible for our pain and no ONE should “pay” for the pain we carry inside.” #StuffRareSays

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The thing is:

We all have struggles.
We can either walk around
Preconceived assumptions about people….
That will impact not only how we treat them
US as a person.
Walk WITH understanding
The path we walk…
Bears the fruit…
Within our own actions.

Be mindful with how you treat others.
WE ALL have struggles.
Which means…
NO ONE has time for bullshit.
Proving themselves.



“The thing about life is: there will always be obstacles in the way of where you want to go. That’s the point. The true test is in our faith, and determination. Not the path. Without obstacles, we wouldn’t know what were made of.” #StuffRareSays

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“I awoke to the sound of a dresser drawer shutting.
As I rolled over and realize what time it was, 6:30AM. I was bemused.

“I was running fast.
Dodging as many paint ball bullets as possible.

There was no way out.
I’d managed to back myself into a corner.
I tried to wriggle my way through a small opening. 
The other team is gaining on me. “
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I must admit, This Holiday vacation has been somewhat exhausting.

With the kiddos home that means there’s a whole lot less ME TIME going on.

Without ME TIME there isn’t a whole lot of BLOG TIME


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I’ve had a few daunting moments in the past few days that almost broke me down spiritually.

Parenthood isn’t easy.
Joyous yes.
Complex indeed.
Especially when we are working parents.
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With the kiddos home
In my work space…
Getting things done has been a futile battle.
Jay hasn’t necessarily been one to understand nor respect the value of my workspace in the house.
When It comes to setting positive examples……

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Let’s just say….

Deaf ears.

You might as well forget about it, unless you want to hear a million and one reasons why he’s gonna do it anyway.

And so…..

I miss my quiet time.

“Relationships based on competition CANNOT thrive. These unions require unity to grow.” #StuffRareSays

You must ask yourself on a daily basis,…
“Do I care more about always bing right?
Do I want to be happy?

“Happiness thrives with an open mind.” #StuffRareSays

With sheer determination and gull

I am riding those waves until I’ve conquered the obstacle.

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Until then…
I’ll see ya on the next one.
Will it be a poem….
A segment….
Who knows

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Happy New Year: Revelations

“Do not place expectation on the outcomes of situations. They are out of our hands. The only thing you can really do is buckle in and enjoy the ride and remember to take your turns cautiously” #StuffRareSays

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Let me first start off by saying,

“Happy New Years!!!!”

Here is to another full year of glorious experiences.
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I decided years ago that New Year’s Resolutions weren’t for me.
I just didn’t see the purpose in waiting for a new year to make changes in my life, take on new challenges or reinvent the wheel.

You see, just like we are ever-changing and growing.
Our goals and ambitions are too.


“Our success is determined by our daily habits, not our annual ones.” #StuffRareSays


So keep confidence in the fact that we ALL have it in us.
To strive for OUR better version of our own selves daily.  


The last week of 2018 was full of scrambling.
The internet was out until midnight on New Year’s Eve and I have been having to bite one serious bullet to keep up with the posting.
All the while….
With kiddos on break and tons of distractions


We did it!


Belted out one awesome series didn’t we?
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As 2018 came to its end, I’d say it was the year that taught me a LOT, shook me, almost broke me, showed me who I am AND changed my direction.

Even though it was a rough ride, I got through to the other side with some exciting new goals, newfound revelations and ambitions.


I shall enjoy this fresh start to a new year with all four of my kids in tow.

With 2019 well underway, I’m going to take on the year one adventure at a time. The good, the bad, the glorious and momentous. With the same sheer motivation and determination as usual. Wherever this year will take us, we do not know, but I’m most definitely excited to find out.

And so…
My glorious readers…..

When this message finds you, I want to share joys and humbling’s as we ALL embark on this new year….


 A special thanks goes to:
 Blu, Prod, PLM, Lola, Tilly,  Kitty Kat, Count Vader, Ritu, Jixi, Zy, Zae, Chellie,
J Danae, Ryno, Lee Lee, Bev, and Ang
For keeping it one hundred
boosting me through my speed bumps.
Ya’ll are part of the BEST inner circle ever!

Great news!!

You will be able to access the podcast version of

“This Year in Review”
January 18th.


We’ll see ya on the next one
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“Making Memories.” #StuffRareSays

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Joyous moments
Holiday cheer
Another wonderful year.
©Rarenwise 12-25-18
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I’m only coming through to say


Have a wonderful holidayFrom ours to yours