“The moment I laid my eyes on her porcelain face, and baby blues my entire world began to sprout anew. For she was the light at the end of a very long and dark tunnel.” #StuffRareSays 

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It’s official!!!

My youngest is officially 3.

With her birthday blues
sunny hues.
She lights up my face
with a simple coo.
©Rarenwise 12-6-18

Featured: NEw birthday haul. 

I’d lost so much is such a short period of time, that this girl lifted my spirits in ways that I can’t even explain. After so much trauma and so much grief, she came, she conquered my heart, and triumphs. 

Neither mom or dad got to meet this little one.





Taking Out The Trash

“No one knows everything. We may think we do, yet lack to understand that we ALL evolve, become aware, concious, mature, learn, AMD overcome at seperate rates.” #StuffRareSays

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Alright newbies, its time to take the gloves off!!
Buckle in and enjoy this ride. 

Let me just get real for one moment:

But first!!!!

I love my friends. You know… the real ones. Y”all are my guiding lights some days, and I just LOVE YOU ALL!! 



“Did any one ever tell you that story of Frenemies?”

Yeah! that S***’s a real thing. You know… those are the girls who pretend to be your friend, but are really just far more vested in competing with you. AS IF….. You have something you gotta prove. 



“As we grow up, we either learn or stay stuck in our old stubborn ways. To each his own” #StuffRareSays


Things I appreciate: Constructive criticism.


Things I don’t:
Throwing competitive judgements at me because I’m not doing it right by “your” book.

If you have your parents in your life to help you take care of your kids, don’t come at me like you know what its like to be a responsible mom. Until you have no parents in your life and NO one helping with your kid/s at all, you just have no idea what it takes.

If you don’t have to pay rent, don’t throw in my face how much more responsible you are than me. Because, priorities are a real thing.  You know.

If you come at me with your jealousies, Because you finally started taking on tasks after months of me busting my ass alone, don’t act like you have something over on me. Get your own shit together.  Then we’ll talk.

Just because I lost my parents young does not mean I need any one volunteering to tell me HOW I NEED TO BE. No one is going to fill their shoes, and I’ve been doing it for a decade. Just fine. Cheers to the girlfriends who understand that.

EVERYONE HAS A LIFE!!! Some people with more on their plate than others, some people who apparently have all the time in the world and think everything revolves around them. Trust me when I say, It’s not up to either side to cast judgment.

“It is he who casts judgment, who truly suffers.”


 While we are all trudging through life, and working on our selves. We should remember to NOT feel entitled to working on other people’s lives. You get one job in life.

“Shaping YOU”

Don’t screw it up by spending all your energy tryna to dictate.

WE don’t get to tell anyone about their lifestyle, priorities, or responsibilities, OR how their managing them, unless we’ve either walked a mile in their shoes, or paid their bills.

If you have a terrible habit of shutting your friends up when they are opening up about their personal life to you, DO NOT act like you have advice to give. JUST…DON’T. It makes you look stupid.

“you gotta actually hear what people say in order to be there for them.”

And so….. the question remains……..

           I learn from my lessons

                                           …. Do you?

           I got this!……

                                           ….Do you?


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Pitter Patter

Parenthood Is Like:

“When sleeping in on the weekend ACTUALLY means sleeping in until 7am.”

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Pitter patter
Through the hall.
Loud whispers
Look at the snow.
©Rarenwise 12-2-18




Due Diligence

We ALL make mistakes. We live, we learn, and we grow. We also cannot heal without second chances, maybe even thirds. but! given those chances, the rate of success is higher.”

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When You look at them,
You see them differently.
Lack to realize,
We All have our lessons.
While theirs may have landed them,

May have been 
Simple fails.

Those who come out.
Strive for a new
Do not need judgements.
Faith in their new moves.
©Rarenwise 11-30-18

Not all people who go through their lessons in a Jail Cell, come out with intentions of going back. As WE ALL pay our dues, they do to.” #StuffRareSays

Inspired by: An observation of how a recently released inmate was treated at the doctor’s office.