Do not confuse yourself. What is spoken out of the mouth of another, isn’t always truth. We can tell our loved ones how we feel about them all we want but it is how we SHOW them that represents our true feelings towards them.” #StuffRareSays  

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Believe it or not:

Actions DO speak louder than words.
If you or anyone you know is in a relationship where words are predominately more important than the relationship itself…
You or they…
Are withstanding emotional abuse.

The interesting aspect about the human psych. is….
We don’t necessarily remember what people say to us, but we WILL remember how they make us feel.
ESPECCIALLY during our hardest times in life.

It is within those feelings that should determine whether or not those words are true.

These are actions that cannot be corrected.
No matter how hard you try.
Truthfully, it isn’t your place to correct anyone’s behavior to begin with.
That is an individual’s cross to bear all on their own.
Until they learn their lessons, they will succumb to…
lesson after lesson.
loss after loss.
Until one day….
They too
Will wake up to their faults and the repercussions of them.

Meanwhile, you must stop and ask yourself.

“Will I be complacent, or love myself enough to move on?”


Food for thought:

Intelligence is: knowing what to say.
Wisdom is: knowing when to say it.
Maturity is: understanding other people’s live’s are not yours to tinker with.
Strength is: being there for others despite your own personal storm.
Growth is: healed trauma. 
True Love is: infinite.
Life is: Wonderous yet short.

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She came in a dream
Dressed in red
Outfit pristine.
She ran up
I gave her a hug
Lifted her up
Embraced her love.

She lifted her hand
Waved goodbye

Off into the sunset 
She descended. 
©Rarenwise 12-7-18

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I have updated the home page and will be making more updates soon. If you’re not following me on twitter, you can find me by clicking on my username @rarenwise 

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Taking Out The Trash

“No one knows everything. We may think we do, yet lack to understand that we ALL evolve, become aware, concious, mature, learn, AMD overcome at seperate rates.” #StuffRareSays

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Alright newbies, its time to take the gloves off!!
Buckle in and enjoy this ride. 

Let me just get real for one moment:

But first!!!!

I love my friends. You know… the real ones. Y”all are my guiding lights some days, and I just LOVE YOU ALL!! 



“Did any one ever tell you that story of Frenemies?”

Yeah! that S***’s a real thing. You know… those are the girls who pretend to be your friend, but are really just far more vested in competing with you. AS IF….. You have something you gotta prove. 



“As we grow up, we either learn or stay stuck in our old stubborn ways. To each his own” #StuffRareSays


Things I appreciate: Constructive criticism.


Things I don’t:
Throwing competitive judgements at me because I’m not doing it right by “your” book.

If you have your parents in your life to help you take care of your kids, don’t come at me like you know what its like to be a responsible mom. Until you have no parents in your life and NO one helping with your kid/s at all, you just have no idea what it takes.

If you don’t have to pay rent, don’t throw in my face how much more responsible you are than me. Because, priorities are a real thing.  You know.

If you come at me with your jealousies, Because you finally started taking on tasks after months of me busting my ass alone, don’t act like you have something over on me. Get your own shit together.  Then we’ll talk.

Just because I lost my parents young does not mean I need any one volunteering to tell me HOW I NEED TO BE. No one is going to fill their shoes, and I’ve been doing it for a decade. Just fine. Cheers to the girlfriends who understand that.

EVERYONE HAS A LIFE!!! Some people with more on their plate than others, some people who apparently have all the time in the world and think everything revolves around them. Trust me when I say, It’s not up to either side to cast judgment.

“It is he who casts judgment, who truly suffers.”


 While we are all trudging through life, and working on our selves. We should remember to NOT feel entitled to working on other people’s lives. You get one job in life.

“Shaping YOU”

Don’t screw it up by spending all your energy tryna to dictate.

WE don’t get to tell anyone about their lifestyle, priorities, or responsibilities, OR how their managing them, unless we’ve either walked a mile in their shoes, or paid their bills.

If you have a terrible habit of shutting your friends up when they are opening up about their personal life to you, DO NOT act like you have advice to give. JUST…DON’T. It makes you look stupid.

“you gotta actually hear what people say in order to be there for them.”

And so….. the question remains……..

           I learn from my lessons

                                           …. Do you?

           I got this!……

                                           ….Do you?


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Breaking Points

“In order to bring peace to your mind, you must first reach a healthy level of relaxation, focus, and clarity.”  #StuffRareSays
©rarenwise 2018

Breaking points: 

We all have them. One can only take so much before they burst. Simply remember to stop for a moment, breathe and let go. Sometimes our greatest losses are caused by tensions that can easily be let go of BEFORE allowing a moment of impact to create millions of moments in regret. To be honest, when we are angry, upset, sad or dissapointed we forget that there is a simple shift in our thought process that can be done. While we all tend to focus on the negative more, we let our positive moments slip through the cracks. As I’ve said in the past… Wthout the negatives we CANNOT have the positives so……..

“Let us see our blessings rather than our failings.” #StuffRareSays

Message to my poetic lovers:
Another poem coming tomorrow!!!