Perceptions Can Be Decieving

“Perception varies depending on the conciousness of an individual.” #StuffRareSays

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Upon driving up to a meeting last night and parking, the lot was full so I decided to back up and re-park. As I was backing out I noticed the review mirror was blocked by snow. It caused me to stop and look at my mirror closer and also have to use old school reverse techniques to continue reversing. A colleague of mine was outside sweeping snow that time and based off my stopping, he assumed I was stuck in the snow. It wasn’t until the meeting ended and it was time to leave that he’d mentioned,
“Are you going to need help getting out?”

“Nah… I have four wheel drive. I’m good.”

He responded with, “Well I saw you get stuck when you pulled in.”

I let out a little laugh about that response merely because I remember exactly what stopped me when I came in.

BECAUSE

Even a witness can get details wrong.

“Perceptions can be deceiving.” #StuffRareSays

 

 

 

Tending

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This is my first Saturday off in months and I am choosing to be lazy AF.

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Well except for all those household chores I now have more time to get done.

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Mom life… Gotta love it.

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Being on the grind six days a week, and blogging seven days a week definitely gave me a run for my money
AND
I’m feeling the effects heavily and severely.

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Granted, I’d love to blog seven days a week.
WITHOUT
Having to work 6 days a week on top of it
BUT
Unfortunately,
That is not something this mom of four can afford to do right now.

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And so… 

“You gotta have the grind, in order to … support the grind.”

Finally…
Today’s message will be short, sweet and simple.

 “Slow it down, and tend your own gardens. Remember that our personal gardens require nourishment as well.” #StuffRareSays

But first!

Let me read a book

peacefully reading

Parenthood On The Brink

“Oh the joys of parenthood. Where you realize you now have a full time job that requires you to be a referee.” #StuffRareSays

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It’s the brink of dawn
She lets out a yawn
As with clockwork
They’re up and their off
Built in alarms
AND
Loud pouncing feet

Pitter patters
Rush through the halls
Their calls for each other
Pass through the walls

Their energy risen
Without any hault
Not a whisper
AS
Their voices
Fill the house.

They start up early
And keep it going
One eggs on
The others feel wronged

A fright breaks loose
and here comes mom.

REEEEPEAT
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Friends Be Like

“A true friend will go through a process and the emotions with a friend simply because they are there for one another.” #StuffRareSays

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You can call it empathy
OR
You can call it sympathy
Both with similiar yet different meanings. 

Sympathy: Seeing that someone is upset, feeling bad for them and understanding they may need support without a personal connetion to them.

Empathy: Seeing and feeling that someone is upset and also feeling what they are feeling. More personal.

THE POINT: 

Real friends will tell you when your over reacting.
They will be mad with you…
Sad with you…
Cry with you…
Experience joy with you…
They will encourage you…
Be excited about your joys
AND
Put you in check when needed.
They will be…

REAL

If you have friends that do not ….
FEEL with you
Then
You may have a FAKE FRIEND in tow. 

Friendship Goals Yo!